The internet
tells me that a guy named Erik Erikson came up with a theory about eight stages
of psychosocial development. Since eight is close to nine, I figured I would
use his well thought out stages as the starting point for a talk about the nine
lives of a Lodge. My legal team advises me that for the record, I should state
that this is more of an homage than any sort of plagiarism. And since I added a
stage, I’m already far more creative than Erik Erikson’s parents were when they
named him. Legal asked me to take that last sentence out. I told them no.
Infancy, or We have a Warrant, now what? Standard Lodge No. 3579 (totally fake
name) is now a constituted to work as a Subordinate Lodge. There is much to be
done, but with hardly a dollar in the bank, they can’t do much more than gurgle,
coo, and put their toes in their mouths. Fortunately they have a lot of siblings
in the District who will help.
Early Childhood, or Let’s get growing. Standard is meeting in another Lodge’s building
for now, but they are excited. The officers and members attack every problem in
front of them as soon as it arises. They meet a couple of nights a week to
coordinate fund raisers, pick regalia and supplies, and plan for the future. It
is interesting to note that there is no distinction here between Officer and
Member involvement. A large percentage of each shows up to lend a hand at every
event.
Preschool, or Time to make friends. Standard is now meeting four or five nights
each month to confer degrees. They have nearly doubled in size since they were
given their Warrant. Outside of Lodge, the members are eager to talk of their
Masonic involvement, and the joys of creating something all their own;
consequently, their friends enquire about joining. The world is theirs for the
taking.
School Age, or There sure is a lot to learn. At this stage, learning is fun,
though. The Trustees now actually have money to invest, and they are able to
generate some income. They ask their sibling Lodges for advice, and more
importantly, they are willing to listen to it. The Lodge has just a few Past
Masters, and they are still willing to help when called on.
Adolescence, or I need my own space. Standard is now thriving. They love their
siblings, but sharing a room is becoming more challenging. They have made some
great investments and the excited and active membership is willing to donate
money, time, and energy to construct their own Lodge building. For most Lodges,
this is the longest life stage. It can last 20 years or it can last 150 years.
As long as the members work in harmony with each other, the Lodge can stay
right here and prosper. If discord begins to develop and is left untreated,
though, the Lodge will enter the next phase.
Young Adulthood, or You’re not the boss of me. The Lodge enters this phase when one of
two things happens: either the new officers do not feel that they are being
allowed to govern the way they choose, or the Past Masters feel that they are
being marginalized. It is not difficult to see both sides of this argument, and
many of us have worn both sets of those shoes at some point in our Masonic
career. Once interpersonal problems begin, members will begin to choose sides. If
these problems aren’t addressed, the Lodge will begin to fracture. If
Standard’s up and coming officers survive the Young Adulthood phase, they will,
with some luck, be able to return to the glory days of adolescence.
We have all
fantasized about getting to relive our youth, and if Standard is smart, it can
learn from its early mistakes and begin to live in harmony again. If not,
things will get a lot worse.
Middle Age, or Kids these days. If they do not learn from their mistakes, more
and more Past Masters will have to step up to fill chairs and do the work that
they thought they had retired from. They love the Lodge too much to watch it
fall apart so they do what they must to get by. If those who are tasked to
repeat offices or fill chairs do it with a terrible attitude, complaining about
the new members not pulling their weight, the situation will worsen quickly. No
man has ever chosen to be a Mason so he can sit in a room and listen to people
complain, and if that’s what he hears, he won’t do much more than attend
sporadically.
Old Age, or Hey you brats, get off of my lawn. Standard is now being run
almost entirely by Past Masters. Outside of the Officers, few people even
attend Lodge. Money may not be an issue, but vigor certainly is – their pulse
is thready at best. A few new Masons join, but they are quickly disillusioned
by the lack of energy and opportunity that awaits them and consequently do not
get involved.
Death, or I can’t be sick; I feel fine. Standard failed to heed the warning
signs, and now it has to make the difficult decision to merge. There really is
no reason to expound upon this; we have all seen it and know how sad and ugly
it can be.
Where is
your Lodge? Are you worried? Don’t be. The good news is that, no matter which of
the first eight stages your Lodge finds itself in, the aging process can be
reversed. It may not be easy, but until death, no Lodge is terminal.
It may
will take effort, time and money, but it can be turned around. If your Lodge has
trouble finding officers, identify a few who have run the Lodge well in the
past. They should have energy, a positive attitude and willingness to serve
again. Ask them to serve in succession, maybe even multiple terms if they are
willing, and to develop a long range plan.
Make your
Lodge a place that people want to visit. If it looks the same as it did fifty
years ago, perhaps that’s why the younger members aren’t coming out. Paint,
furniture and wi-fi don’t cost that much, but they send the signal that the
Lodge is looking toward the future and not living in the past. That is the
message that you want new Members to take home.
Finally,
give your Brothers a reason to come. Great programs are essential to Lodge
success. Entertaining programs can sometimes cost money. So spend it. Have a
nice meal, invite the families, and pay a good speaker. Advertise it with a
separate flyer – printed in color (gasp!) – in the monthly notice. Make the
Brethren want to come out.
So is your
Lodge going to be nimble, vibrant and young at heart or is it going to sit in
its rocking chair and complain about how candy bars used to cost a nickel and
were twice as big as they are now? The choice is yours.